لوستل› دفتر ۱› د سړي لخوا خپل ځان د ښځې غوښتنې ته د روزي په طلب کې تسلیم کول او د ښځې هغه اعتراض د حق اشارې ګڼل. د هر پوه انسان په عقل کې شته چې د ګرځیدونکي سره یو ګرځوونکی هم شته› بيت ۲۴۵۰
M1:2450 — من گنهکار توم رحمی بکن / بر مکن یکبارگیم از بیخ و بن
M1:2450
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在这节诗中,丈夫向妻子彻底忏悔,承认自己犯了错,恳求她发发慈悲,不要因为这次过错就彻底抛弃他、毁掉他们的关系。
这节诗是故事中丈夫悔悟的高潮。之前,他不顾妻子的劝告,执意要去寻找虚幻的宝藏,结果一无所获,反而耗尽家财。当他意识到自己的愚蠢和固执给家庭带来了灾难时,他幡然醒悟。此刻,他不再是那个自以为是的男人,而是一个谦卑的“罪人”(گنهکار)。
他将妻子视为自己冒犯的对象,向她祈求“怜悯”(رحم)。这种姿态的转变至关重要。在鲁米的思想中,认识到自己的过错并真心忏悔,是回归神圣真理的第一步。在这里,丈夫与妻子的关系成了一种隐喻:灵魂(丈夫)因追逐世俗欲望而背离了神圣智慧(妻子的劝告,被视为“神的暗示”),最终在痛苦中认识到错误,向神(在此由妻子代表)忏悔。
“莫要将我连根拔起”(بر مکن از بیخ و بن)这个意象非常生动。他恳求的不是简单的原谅,而是不要让这次错误摧毁他们关系的根本。他希望妻子能看到他悔改的诚意,给他一个重新来过的机会,就像一个犯了错的信徒祈求上帝不要将他从恩典中彻底铲除一样。
- بیخ و بن
- “根与本”,一个波斯语习语,意为“根基、根本、彻底”,与中文的“连根拔起”意象相通。
- یکبارگی
- 副词,意为“一次性地、一下子、完全地”。这里强调丈夫害怕被妻子彻底、决绝地抛弃。
- گنهکار
- “罪人”或“犯错者”。在此语境下,既指丈夫对妻子犯下的过错,也带有苏非派语境下人对上帝犯错的意味。
The husband begs his wife for mercy, asking her not to abandon him completely for his harsh words, which he now deeply regrets.
This couplet is the climax of a man's sudden and profound remorse. After lecturing his wife piously about trusting God for their daily bread, he is immediately struck with regret, seeing his speech not as wisdom but as a cruel attack on his own soul. He now turns to his wife, the very person he was just admonishing, as his judge and potential source of mercy.
His plea, "I am your sinner" (man gunahkār-i tu'am), is a complete reversal of his previous stance. He is no longer the spiritual guide but a supplicant begging forgiveness for a transgression against her. The phrase "uproot me... root and branch" (bar makan... az bīkh u bun) is a powerful agricultural metaphor for total annihilation or abandonment. He fears his single outburst has destroyed the foundation of their relationship, and he begs her not to cast him out entirely for this one mistake.
In the larger Sufi context, this domestic scene models the soul's relationship with God. The wife's initial complaint, which seemed like worldly nagging, is now understood by the husband as a divine sign (ishārāt-i ḥaqq). His repentance before her is therefore a rehearsal for repentance before God. The beyt shows that the path to divine mercy often runs through mending our relationships with others, recognizing our own fallibility, and humbly asking for forgiveness.
- گنهکار
- Literally 'sinner' or 'transgressor'. Here, it signifies one who has wronged another, specifically the husband admitting his fault to his wife.
- یکبارگی
- Adverb meaning 'all at once', 'suddenly', 'in one go'. It emphasizes the husband's fear of a swift and final rejection.
- بیخ و بن
- Literally 'root and foundation'. A common Persian idiom meaning 'completely', 'utterly', 'root and branch'. It conveys a sense of total destruction or eradication.
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